Hello Ladies😁 I am Darcy from Calgary, Alberta, Canada. I am real & I am searching for 1 and only 1 very very calm very very easy going very understanding woman! Why? Because I am handicapped, no I do not require a wheel chair or such things, I get around on my own 2 feet.
I have multiple spinal vertebrae injuries since age 4 (father shook me twice in same day at age 4, then age 5 grade 1 female teacher shook me & destroyed all vertebrae in my neck) also grade 1 age 5, 2 grade 6 boys took their anger of being held back in grade 6 for the 4th year in a row on me and broke my pelvis! and my brain has been bruised 3 times and 1 brain injury, this was my brain actually bleeding. I have owned many different businesses over the years.
I love nature & camping, fishing, hiking, travelling, cooking, BBQ, scuba diving, smoke house (smoked fish,chicken, turkey, sausage) baking, canning....yes i learned it all from my parents as my dad was born 1926 and my mom born 1932. Dad passed away 2003 @ 77 & mom is alive, now 86 but she had a stroke at age 79 & can not speak. I took care of them until 1 year after mom's stroke & then after her stroke I eventually moved her into retirement home & sold her house. She lives comfortably. So now i am 51 years young! I am a passionate man, i love life & after mom I went back driving class A trucks (Kenworth) long haul between Canada & USA. But this was not to last, March 30th 2014 I ended up with a DVT in right leg that broke up and caused a massive double pulmonary embolism (massive blood clots in both lungs) which also caused Ischemia (damage) to the right side of my heart, this costed me 1 month in the hospital & I lost my trucking company & my life savings, so it has been 6 years trying to rebuild my life & my health, I am winning on the health part slowly but the rebuilding of finances at this age with my injuries is very difficult but I do not give up.

Before I went back driving truck with my own company I was and internationally certified fitness trainer & certified nutritional counselor, so when the doctors started talking I understood it all. I have owned an at home travel agency in my younger days, I am always trying to learn and improve. Yes I do like computer games and love most all movies, especially if i get to cuddle with my lady on the couch or in bed 😉 I truly do require a very very calm understanding lady because of the brain injury I have anxiety attacks!! This is no joke!! I wake up at various early early times of the morning (1am, 2am 3 am & so on), my brain in panic mode!!!
so you must be calm to keep me calm or at least to be able to try to understand what I am going through! Also so that you yourself do not panic or freak out because this will make my condition worse as then I will be worrying about you!! YES I WILL ALWAYS WORRY ABOUT YOU IF I LOVE YOU!! IT is just my nature, my upbringing.

I have a very very long life story but I will not just share this with anyone as too many bullies (both male & female) have berated me over the years. Now I mostly keep to myself. I am not rich!!! I reply to messages when i can as it is extremely expensive for me! If i do not reply to your message do not be offended. I might check you out and read your profile & i might send you a message & you might reply but then you will have to wait until i can reply as too many women send me messages on here, sometimes I feel like a 1 legged cat being chased by all you ladies LoL for a Sagittarius man this can cause us to run away, we value our freedom and therefore run away from you ladies if we feel trapped, we require some alone time and i believe a lot of people require alone time to just chill out by themselves and do something on their own, like fishing or a drive in the country.

I do not mind when the lady sends me first contact but please be gentle, no insults or put downs or judgments.

No I have never ever been married!!! No I have no children, a regret but because of my injuries I am not even sure I could father a child...I guess we can have fun trying and see what happens, if you want children. I would love to teach my child (Girl or boy) about life and be better to them than what my family were too me & show them right from wrong & teach them life skills, see them grow into fine upstanding adults.

I had my chance to get married & I blew it, I was young 28 & because of my past with all the bullying & lies & manipulation that various people tried on me I trust no one, my trust has to be earned by you!! Just as I try to earn your trust in me!!
I am very kind & sweet gentle man but if pushed too much or too hard or if someone yells at me or puts me down...LOOK OUT as I will go off like a bomb!! I do not like bullies of any kind!! Male or female!!!
I try & work very hard to control my emotions & not get angry with people as we are all fighting battles that no one knows about, maybe that person who judges me or puts me down had a bad day or is going through something that I do not know about, so I try very hard to be understanding. I am not a mean man or a bully, I am a lover not a fighter 😉
This is me being very open here with you ladies, it is a bit scary because I do not know what to expect for replies or questions from the ladies here, But none the less I am determined to find LOVE, TRUST, PEACE, CALM, UNDERSTANDING, PASSIONATE, CARING, LOVING, KIND, FAITHFUL, FRIENDLY WOMAN to share life with, to grow old with, to be there for each other....it is hard to trust anyone once you have been bullied from age 4 to well most of my life. so if you can be what I need then I will be what you need. I believe it is all about trust and being kind and understanding to each other, communication & talking...this is the key to any relationship!! Talking calmly, no yelling or freaking out, it accomplishes nothing accept to drive people away from you!!
I like reading too and researching, I am always on the internet looking how to heal my various conditions with natural remedies as i hate western medicine with a passion!! using one poison to fight another is BS in my opinion & because of my education as a trainer & nutritional counselor I learned how to cleanse the body naturally & not use chemicals or man made poison junk, sugar being number 1 and salt number 2...yes salt is actually a poison to the human body but it does add flavor to meat or meat would taste bland, see I am a good cook 😉 but seriously sodium we eat way way way too much every day & it dehydrates or bodies & joints, then when we have joint pain such as elbow or shoulder or knee the doctor says oh you have arthritis here is a pill...ummmm NO NO NO wrong all lies so the doctor keeps you coming in and keeps making money off you being sick or in pain but they do not heal you! They mask the issue & do not tell you the truth...your diet sucks and you are not exercising & you are not drinking enough plain water, yes plain water, no juice (sugar), no pop (sugar), no coffee (diuretic that dehydrates you) but plain water or some herbal teas are okay.
This is just a little in site for you ladies as to what I am into & how I look at the world & certain things.

So if you are still interested in me and would like to know me more please feel free to contact me.

If I reply to you please remember I do not always reply very fast, i wait for pay day to pay day to see if I have enough money to afford to reply first, then if i do i will reply, remember I lost everything & I am rebuilding my life.
I also own a small online store ketopia-enterprises.com it is only online since June of 2019 and not very successful yet but it is a new learning experience for me too. I also collect a government disability income & I work part time too delivering food. I am slowly rebuilding my life & my health after almost dying but then I have almost died 10 different times since age 4!!
I went back to college April 28th 2019 & one staff member of the college named me deadpool because to her hearing my life story she said you have more lives than a cat & can not die, so you are deadpool LOL I am not mouthy or that sarcastic like the movie deadpool LoL
I do like to tease & play with you my lover.
come cuddle with me on a blanket by the fire, maybe we have a glass of wine or champagne & ill feed you strawberries and give you a massage, yes something else I am good at 😉
We have so much to learn about each other my love, a new adventure together??
I am blonde but head shaved bald as my hair started falling out at a young age and by age 23 I started shaving it. I grow my beard & I have my look, I sometimes shave the beard off completely & I look very different, some like me more with a beard & some without it 😉 what is your preference? I love holding your hand my best friend, my sweet sexy cute forever lover 😉 I will kiss you for no reason & in public too!
Do you enjoy sitting & relaxing in a hot tube outside? have you ever tried it in winter? then hop out & dive into snow bank? very exhilarating & cleansing for the body & mind, it also helps with my spinal conditions too & joint aches & pains.
I also love birds especially parrots, I also like flowers & love buying you roses or bouquet of mixed flowers.

Let me in & we can explore each other & our lives & passions together!
I am so tired of being alone, always alone....sigh I know if we could just meet in person & hear each others voice & see each others smile & attitude towards each other & life that we will succeed in our happiness together.

With Love, admiration, hugs & thousands of kisses..including french kisses 😉
Darcy Wayne Dvornek

P.S. darcywd4@gmail.com

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