Happiness is here, everywhere, is the essence of Existence. No animal is so unhappy, no flower, no tree or mountain is so unhappy. Why human being is unhappy?. Because unlike the rest of the Existence, the ordinary consciousness is not living here and now, enjoying who we are.
The human mind tries to look for happiness outside, but what happens outside is temporary, dependent on external circumstances, changing and insufficient. Soon you feel happy again. Therefore, there is no point in looking for it there. We must look for the source of happiness itself. Or rather, we have to know who we really are.
In fact, our essential happy and peaceful nature is something that is naturally present, is always there in the background, because of the simple fact of existing, but it is obscured by the mind activity of “seeking” continually for something outside in the future and “resisting” the circumstances that displease us, that take us into the past and the future. And the slavery of desires also brings the fear of not getting them.
So, we only need to simply become conscious about all this process, and how mind lead us to the unnecessary suffering this causes. And then, try to live staying centered, in the inner center of our simple presence, such as allowing the gesture of simply feeling yourself or gently directing your gaze inward. This “Self-remembering” immediately calms the mind, and allows you to live in the real world that is your own being, thus managing to be in the world at the same time, but without allowing the world to drag you into it.
This is living meditatively. And when I said the world, I meant from the body itself, the deficiencies, the temptations from outside, the memories of the past, the negative attitudes of others, the claims of objects, etc...
If you are centered, nothing can be destroyed within you. Not even death is capable of distracting you. Once you learn to be in yourself, you stop reacting like a mechanism to the outside world or identification with thoughts.. Once one gathers within oneself more and more, a crystallized consciousness illuminates you more and more. And that flame begins to accompany you wherever you go, whatever you do. It is also like a seed. Once you start using it, it blossoms. Soon you will see: spring has arrived and is blooming and you are filled with the fragrance of the unknown. The Cosmic Spirit or Higher Self has shown itself within you.
And it is curious, but the great spiritual teachers say that once you are interested in knowing yourself in this way, Existence does not then satisfy only our “necessary needs.” But also, the “unnecessary or less necessary” ones, satisfying dreams, desires, and other desires that for a long time seemed impossible to fulfill. Like a real and indestructible romantic love.
Humbly I say that I am deep, devotional, loving, sensitive, tender, caring, willful, curious, cheerful, creative, joyful and funny person. I adore to spread my love to the whole Creation, being useful to others, listen and talk to them, trying to transmit Joy and Faith about themselves and the Existence. I like to write, read spiritual and scientist books, playing chess, and practice meditation. I am ecologist in my behaviors and so interested to protect nature and life of animals. I love sport. I like simply spending time in nature or doing sun-gazing in the early morning to active the pineal gland. And I adore to dance a lot too!. Do you want to dance "Jumping Jack Flash" with me? 😁

To my view there is a transcendental question here. We can’t not expect that a relationship can make us happy. There is no objective experience in the world (people, objects, activities, emotions, sensations or whatever), that can make us know the unconditioned Joy of or own divine Being. At the same time, it would not make any sense either that what we are depended on what might happen to us. We can experiment pleasant and unpleasant situations in our lives, they all alternate until the end of our lives. And the relationships also belongs to this. One day your relationship may seem wonderful to you, but the next day you realize that you were wrong. So, If you enter in a relationship with such expectation of get the happiness, you will ruin such beautiful experience of romantic love.
Happiness is your divine nature, as all ancient spiritual teachings have said since ancient times. So, only when you realize that you are already happy alone, you can share your joy and celebration with a possible partner. The external man or the external woman are actually sought because in some way they remind us of the internal man or the internal woman that already lives within us. Therefore, every person who wants to be really happy, whether or not he has a partner, is to find his inner man or woman internally, to complete that circle. Otherwise, your love relationship will not be real, it will be false.
I feel my own inner completeness. So, I don’t need a woman, but I would be happy to appreciate the company of someone who felt like me. I would like to find someone spiritual, that is not attached to mundane interests all the time, that is truly interested in knowing herself better each day. Someone really considered, honest, loving, kind, sincere, generous, smart, joyful, with strong will and high moral values, but funny at the same time. Someone that you admire and will be in harmony, drinking together from the Eternal Source of Love, Joy and Beauty. That kind of meetings are absolutely indestructible, because they are written in the stars.
P.D: I really appreciate the women who have their natural photos, without so much color or photoshop, who do not pretend to be who they are not.
Peace, Love and Light for everyone.

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