over all im a confident happy and optimistic guy who enjoys what life has to offer. im honest reliable and loyal and very caring(go ahead and just call me a golden retriever!)i would always have your back and be supportive of what you were doin or want to achieve. i would be your best friend and honest critic.yes i'd tell you what you really need to hear. good or bad.i want you to be my partner in crime so to speak.
i enjoy having a good conversation with someone who is intelligent and articulate and is able to express themselves. i enjoy the cut and thrust of the conversation and the parry and riposte that goes along with it.
i like dining out and staying in. like a good bottle of wine. like to BBQ, seafood boils pizza done in the back yard.
i love sports. golf mountain bike tennis equestrian jumping skeet shootin or just flyin a kite.
i keep up with local state national and world news and events. im mostly conservative and more of a take charge kind of man. im sensitive and try to be thoughtful. i am also sarcastic and can be a procrastinator at times.
im a dreamer. i believe you should give it a try for the worst that can happin is you fail and if you do so what. try again. for the only way to success is to try.
i enjoy hanging at the coffeeshop for a good coffee and to read and talk and relax.
i would like a good hearted woman a pretty one would be even better!
for what good is beauty without brains and kind feelings. what good is money without happiness , a smile without feeling for that special someone and your life without that special someone to care about and that cares about you.
there is a special beauty a woman who believes in herself, for deep within you ,you know what you are capable of if you put your mind to it, you have an inner strength and determination that you have to follow you own path and your not thrown off by obstacles along the path you've chosen no matter what,
your inner beauty comes from the confidence you have comes from havein that special someone you care about believe in you and stands by you and from the experiences you've had in your live. you know that when you have failed you have picked yourself up and started again.
i would like a woman who would dance in the rain with me, who would carry her flip-flops in her purse but love to where her "stilettos" to show off for me. we would like at life and our reality through a glass of wine and believe dreams come true for if we are together and work together we make our dreams come true.
in the end physical looks do start things off but over time looks fade money will be made and spent but who you are on the inside, deep in your core, thats what holds two people together for a life time. there will be good times and fair times and yes bad times but once you commit always stand by each other.
it would be great to have that friend , lover and lust with you. as a couple we are a team against the world so to speak.
IT WOULD BE GREAT TO HAVE THAT FRIEND AND LOVER AS WE WALK HAND AND HAND DOWN THE STREET AND STEAL A KISS FROM EACH OTHER FOR ALL TO SEE.
THESE 2 POEMS WILL GIVE YOU SOME INSIGHT TO THE "INNER ME"
THEY ARE
1) ITS NOT THE CRITIC THAT COUNTS
BY PRESIDENT THEODORE ROOSEVELT
2) IF
BY RUDYARD KIPLING
ITS NOT THE CRITIC THAT COUNTS
ITS NOT THE CRITIC WHO COUNTS, NOT THE MAN WHO POINTS OUT HOW THE STRONG MAN STUMBLES, OR WHEN THE DOER OF DEEDS COULD HAVE DONE BETTER.THE CREDIT BELONGS TO THE MAN WHO IS ACTUALLY IN THE ARENA;WHOSE FACE IS MARRED BY DUST AND SWEAT AND BLOOD;WHO STRIVES VALIANTLY;WHO ERRS AND COMES UP SHORT AGAIN AND AGAIN;WHO KNOWS THE GREAT ENTHUSIASMS,THE GREAT DEVOTIONS AND SPENDS HIMSELF IN A WORTHY CAUSE;WHO AT THE BEST,KNOWS IN THE END THE TRIUMPH OF HIGH ACHIEVEMENT; AND WHO AT THE WORST IF HE FAILS, AT LEAST HE FAILS WHILE DOING AND DARING GREATLY, SO THAT HIS PLACE SHALL NEVER BE WITH THOSE COLD AND TIMID SOULS WHO KNOW NEITHER VICTORY OR DEFEAT...
IF
IF YOU CAN KEEP YOUR HEAD WHEN ALL
ABOUT YOU ARE LOSING THEIRS AND BLAMING IT ON YOU,
IF YOU CAN TRUST YOURSELF WHEN ALL MEN DOUBT YOU,BUT MAKE ALLOWANCE FOR THEIR DOUBTING TOO;
IF YOU CAN WAIT AND NOT BE TIRED BY WAITING,
OR BEING LIED ABOUT BUT DON'T DEAL IN LIES,
OR BEING HATED, DON'T GIVE WAY TO HATING AND YET DON'T LOOK TOO GOOD,NOR TALK TOO WISE:
IF YOU CAN DREAM-AND NOT MAKE DREAMS YOUR MASTER;
IF YOU CAN THINK-AND NOT MAKE THOUGHTS YOUR AIM;
IF YOU MEET WITH TRIUMPH AND DISASTER AND TREAT THOSE TWO IMPOSTORS JUST THE SAME;
IF YOU CAN BEAR TO HEAR THE TRUTH YOU'VE SPOKEN TWISTED BY KNAVES TO MAKE A TRAP FOR FOOLS,OR WATCH THE THINGS YOU GAVE YOUR LIFE TO , BROKEN,AND STOOP AND BUILD EM UP WITH WORN OUT TOOLS;
IF YOU CAN MAKE ONE HEAP OF ALL YOUR WINNINGS AND RISK IT ON ONE TURN OF PITCH -AND -TOSS,
AND LOSE, AND START AGAIN AT YOUR BEGINNINGS AND NEVER BREATH A WORD ABOUT YOUR LOSS;
IF YOU CAN FORCE YOUR HEART AND NERVE AND SINEW TO SERVE YOUR TURN LONG AFTER THEY ARE GONE, AND SO HOLD ON WHEN THERE IS NOTHING IN YOU EXCEPT THE WILL WHICH SAYS TO THEM: "HOLD ON"!
IF YOU CAN TALK WITH CROWDS AND KEEP YOUR VIRTUE, OR WALK WITH KINGS NOR LOSE YOUR COMMON TOUCH, IF NEITHER FORES NOR LOVING FRIENDS CAN HURT YOU,
IF ALL MEN COUNT WITH YOU, BUT NONE TOO MUCH; IF YOU CAN FILL THE UNFORGIVING MINUTE WITH SIXTY SECONDS WORTH OF DISTANCE RUN,
YOURS IS THE EARTH AND EVERYTHING THAT'S IN IT, AND -- WHICH IS MORE-- YOU'LL BE A MAN, MY SON!
IF I HAVE CAUGHT YOUR EYE AND YOUR MIND PLEASE WRITE ME. THANKS FOR READING ALL THIS AND HOPE IT HAS GIVIN YOU INSIGHT TO WHOM I AM..
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