I am a never married Chinese American who immigrated to the U.S. when I was a kid. Depending on whom you ask, my life is a either a success or a failure: I graduated from one of the best universities in the world and made a lot of money, but at the same time I have worked too hard and now I am 42 without a family. My mother definitely thinks my life is a failure 😃)) Well, I came from a very poor family and I had to climb the wealth ladder... I chose to work hard for the first 15 years after college and now I have financial freedom to do whatever I want for the next 50 years. Or, average men can work 9-5 everyday for 50 years. I am not here to judge: one CHOOSES what he does with HIS life.

I am helplessly romantic! I am fiercely loyal. I am a one-woman man and will never betray her. I am honest. I don't easily promise anything, but if I do, I try my best to fulfill all my promises. I am an immigrant myself. I understand how terrifying it was to move to another country. I barely spoke any English when I came here as a kid. I will understand, respect, and support my woman if she immigrates to the U.S. I like travelling. We will travel the world together in future.

My shortcomings:
I am a little introvert. I don't like night clubs. I admire people with natural skill of meeting new people and being able to talk to them and establish instant connection. I can never do that. So I don't have a lot of friends. I could also be a little impatient sometimes. I am shopaholic (maybe most women consider this a strength, haha). In 2020, I bought a whole container of furniture and home decorations for my home 😃 Yes, ONE WHOLE BIG CONTAINER! 😃))

I am a bit old, 42. I am a different race, Chinese American. If you are not interested in inter-racial relationship, please don't waste my time. If you just want to write write write forever and you don't want to meet in person, please don't waste my time, either. I just want to know only A FEW nice women online. Hopefully ONE of them and I happen to like each other, and I will fly to meet her in person. I don't deal with 10/20/50 women at the same time, or say to 10/20/50 women at the same time "I want to kiss you". 😃)) You might be laughing at me, because every man/woman flirts with many women/men online at the same time. I don't care what you think, and I won't change my method. If it doesn't work out, I move on quickly.

I don't judge your background, country, income, job, race. I do have a few requirements: 26-36 years old, non-smoker, non-drinker or social drinker. Never married. No kids (I want kids of my own, of course). I don't judge your current job even if you are a politician 😃))

December 12, 2022 Update:
I have been on this website for 16 months now. I received a lot of letters. There are 6000+ unopened letters in my inbox. I am aware a lot of these letters are fake or automatic introduction letters. But there are indeed a lot of genuine letters, too. I apologize to the ladies who wrote genuine letters that I never opened. I am actually a very humble and good man. But I don't want to overwhelm myself with many letters. I have talked to only 4 ladies in 16 months. They didn't work out for various reasons (one of them is because of the Ukraine war). So I am free now, and I am open to getting to know 1 or 2 new ladies today.