One of my favorite thoughts: Having a soft heart in a cruel world is courage, not weakness.

I'm always reading and writing. Most of my time is wrapped up in self-development. I've done my soul searching and I do consider myself a well-balanced individual who has attained some wisdom in making a relationship work. I'm down to earth and I'm happy to look at the big picture when a compromise is required. Ernest Hemingway once wrote, “ There is nothing noble in being superior to your fellow man; true nobility is being superior to your former self.”

I'm a patient man and I'm not in a hurry. Once we do start, you will find me enthusiastic to explore your needs and you'll find I have many layers of personality for you to explore. For the right woman, I am lovingly submissive, and gentle, and so much more. This profile is definitely just a sliver of who I am.

I need a woman that can read between the lines. I do know what romance is. It's the small everyday things a man does to show his woman he cares. From making you coffee when I first get up to the loving caress at night when we are spooning and I'm whispering in your ear.

I'm quirky. Sometimes I say outlandish things and I will admit I in no way consider myself skilled at seducing a woman. I hope you will at least see me as adorably stupid. I'll tell you now. I am an affectionate man. I love to cuddle and I love to kiss passionately. I'm going to rub your feet and yes I'm going to ask you how your day was. I'm not a man that thinks sexual frequency is in anyway attached to erotic quality. I have tantric beliefs that a man shouldn't always have his main focus in love making to be just to finish. I'm going to have so much to learn about you.

I want to meet a woman and revive the art of kissing... That passion, excitement, heat, that goes along with a great make out session...

I truly believe we create our own reality. My goal is to find ONE loving, REAL woman to share a lifetime with. I do have very different goals in life. I don't want our relationship to be stereotypical. I want a modern marriage. I don't care who we are to the world, it's who we are to each other that really matters.

I do know a little about compatibility. I do know our first hurdle is going to be our language barrier. Being able to talk to each other is essential to a healthy relationship. In the Chinese horoscope I know my best fits are women born in the year of the Dog, Horse or Pig. Then in the zodiac I have good relationships with those born an Aries, Leo, Aquarius or Pisces.

We all have certain characteristics that we're drawn to. I find true beauty in those rare few that deliberately project their sexuality. Despite stereotypes a woman doesn't have to be modest for me to respect her.

I'm starting over. I enjoy the diversity of Alone Angels but I do get far too many trite introduction letters here. I'm looking for what I think is an extraordinary woman. The woman I end up with will be good at making people feel comfortable, mature, open-minded, lighthearted but not childish, and above all, have an innate ability to speak her mind.

We all have to agree that we're capable of loving more than one parent, child, sibling, or friend. By the same reasoning, the only distinction a hotwife relationship has is that we don't propagate the fallacious belief that we can only have feelings for one romantic partner at a time. Mainstream society needs to accept that how we differentiate ourselves from our parent culture is neither deviant nor non-sustainable. I prefer to think that sexual fidelity isn't what keeps a relationship monogamous, but rather that it's the emotional connection which defines monogamy. My desires are based on experience and my understanding of the accumulated conflicts of intimacy and passionate sex. To be clear, I only see my future with a woman open to exploring a PERMANENT hotwife relationship.

A hotwife enjoys flirting and the attention of men. She may be an exhibitionist. In role-play, she will enjoy expressing her normally sublimated desires to seduce strangers or friends.

After learning that I'm comfortable and supportive of these scenarios of seduction the only skill most women have to develop is to unashamedly share every intoxicating detail with me. On occasion, she may even do it in my presence.

That would even evolve into sex with the third person, ideally with me enjoying voyeuristic pleasure or in a 3some.

After reading this, if you really want my undivided attention all you have to do is send me a well thought out introduction letter that emphasizes you are open and unashamedly enthusiastic to explore this lifestyle with me. After reading this, I do have a clear, detailed understanding why this isn't part of some complex. Referencing all 5 criteria of the DSM-IV if necessary.